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The situation forced her to think about what she actually expected from her marriage.
Was she angry because her husband went to the beach?
Or was she angry because he didn’t seem to understand that she deserved the same consideration?
Those are two very different problems.
A healthy relationship doesn’t necessarily mean that both people do exactly the same things every day.
It means both people recognize that their responsibilities should be shared fairly and that neither person’s needs should automatically come last.
Sometimes one partner needs a break.
